the past couple years, as online dating has grown in popularity, its grown in a lot of other ways too. . Dont use a photograph with other people in it, especially men. When youre chatting online or texting it sounds like you arent interested. We really appreciate. With so many questions, its hard to focus on actually getting to know your date. Take good pictures, ask me questions to get to know me better, make me laugh, and be open. Need your daily news, features and entertainment?